Lead Me Come Back



It was shine so bright
I could feel you, it seemed so real
I nevigated, so long till I lost your bearings
You let go of my hand
Kept on my way and felt the dark so close to me
Hark my scream, but you won't
You got back, and I lose my grip, all alone
Please, lead me come back
I'm just tired...


                                                                                                               -Ratri-

SIKLUS

Tuhan menunjukkan saya banyak hal melalui setiap apa yang Ia ciptakan. Sekarang saya percaya jika Tuhan menciptakan segala sesuatu itu bukan tanpa tujuan. Saya belajar melalui hujan, melalui pelangi dan melalui langit senja-Nya. Melalui mereka saya belajar, bahwa tak bisa selamanya saya meminta hujan, tak bisa selamanya saya menikmati petrichornya. saya lupa bahwa saya bukan Tuhan pemilik dari segalanya. Saya terlalu terpukau dengan keindahan ciptaannya yang bernama hujan. Saya suka berlama-lama di bawah air hujan tanpa peduli saya mulai kedinginan, saya terlalu menikmatinya hingga saya lupa bahwa nantinya akan ada langit senja yang menghangatkan. Dan tidak semestinya saya membenci pelangi yang menjadikan hujan tiada. Pelangi akan tetap indah, hujan akan tetap menenangkan, senja akan menghangatkan dan sudah pasti matahari akan tetap bersinar.


Kehidupan itu seperti siklus. Siklus itu bertahap, siklus itu mempunyai step step yang setiap stepnya harus dilalui. Mustahil kita menghilangkan salah satu stepnya atau membuang salah satu step yang kita anggap tidak menyenangkan dan menggantinya dengan step yang lain yang kita anggap  lebih menyenangkan. Justru kita membutuhkan banyak step yang tidak menyenangkan agar kita belajar tentang ketidak senangan sebelum nantinya kita benar-benar berada pada step yang paling menyenangkan, yang menjadi tujuan kita. Belajarlah untuk tidak membenci ketika terjatuh, belajarlah untuk tidak memaki ketika terpuruk. Menangislah tanpa membenci, menangislah tanpa memaki. Ajari hatimu menjadi hati yang bijaksana. Dewasakan hatimu dengan rasa sakit. Sadarkan dirimu  bahwa rasa sakit itu memang perlu, rasa sakit itu yang membuktikan bahwa suatu saat nanti kita pantas untuk bahagia, rasa sakit itu yang membuktikan bahwa kita pernah berada di step yang tidak menyenangkan dan sudah sepantasnya kita mendapatkan step kebahagiaan kita, nanti. Lalui sakit itu, karena ulat tidak akan pernah menjadi secantik kupu-kupu tanpa kepompong jelek J


Being a Highly Educated Woman, Is It Important?

     



        Every woman has a nature to be a housewife. It is often used as  a reason  that a woman does not need a higher education if she only stays at home or becomes a housewife. It is the social stigma that is still growing in our environment. However, being a highly educated woman is important. We have to change the social stigma.The following reasons why being a highly educated woman is important are:

       Firstly, nowadays we live in globalization era when all people including women are required to follow all developments. Highly educated people will simply follow all the developments that occurr and will continue to develop. Highly educated people will easily socialize because they have a lot of relations, they will have a great social life. A woman has to bend over backwards to be a highly educated woman, so she will survive in this era because education is one of the tools to empower a woman and according to Dr.Josephine Azuka Onyido from University of Port Harcourt in his paper entitled Education and Women in the Era of Globalization, he said that “women education is an essential tool for individual family and national development, women should seize all the avenues open to them to go to school to increase their social and political power in the society, this is a strong reason why goverments around the world should assume the responsibility to provide and finance education especially basic education for women.“ In this globalization era, if a woman does not get an education, she looks like an old school woman.



       Secondly, as we know that in this era, women are demanding equality with men. They do not want any difference between women and men. Most women in this age do not want if they only become a housewife. They prefer to be a housewife and also a career woman. They want to apply the knowledge that they had gained in college, want to interact more with the outside world, want to help her husband to improve family’s economy. They do not want to stay at home all the time to do housework but they want to interact with the outside world. It is all about woman empowerment. According to Manjeet Sharma, she is a secretary of the Forum of Women in Public Sector, in her speech she said that “Education is recognized as a crucial measure. Education is one of the most important means of empowering women with the knowledge, skills, and self confidence necessary to participate fully in the development process.” Thus, I assume that education is the best way to empower quality of a woman.



        Thirdly, one of the duties of a housewife is to educate their children, so a mother must ensure that their children are well developed. We know that the primary education for children is not from formal education or non-formal education but from informal education, that is from the family and the environment. If there is an educated mother in a family, they will have educated children. It is easy for an educated mother to manage her children. You can imagine if a woman is uneducated. I believe that she cannot manage her children well, especially in her children’s education. According to Wikipedia “an educated women play a more active role in the family also brings about social benefits for family members.” Take a look in the first reason that nowadays we live in globalization era, so as a mother, they really need to know about all the good and the bad forms of developments. Hence, they can anticipate if there are bad possibilities of any changes of this era for their children. I conclude that how the condition of a family is a reflection of who the woman is.

        Some of the reasons and the researches which I mentioned above are quite clear that being a highly educated woman is very beneficial for your own life, especially in this age and whatever your decision later, being a housewife or a career woman or both of them, being a highly educated woman is important. Hence, I dare you to be a highly educated woman. 

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